Steve and Amanda by the fire

Sacred Partnership

Meet each other in the fire.

Coaching for couples who want more depth, more truth and more fire, or who have lost each other and want to find the way back.

Is this you?

You know there's more

  • You keep circling something deepand keep missing each other.
  • You can't talk without old pain taking over.Power struggles, shutdown, the same fight on repeat.
  • You long for more eros, more reverence, more truthand don't know how to unlock it.
  • You're strong together and want to go further.Not in crisis. In devotion.

Not to fix each other. To face yourselves, together.

Steve and Amanda as king and queen in an embrace

Amanda & me

We live what we teach

Amanda and I work with couples from inside our own relationship: the same work, the same edges, the same devotion. Between us: psychology, tantra, somatic practice and years of holding couples through the hardest conversations of their lives.

You learn to speak what you've both been afraid to say, with love. To listen for what's beneath the story. And to build something honest, sacred and alive.

What you'll build

A relationship that's legendary, not just fine

Trust & connection

Dissolve the barriers to love and trust.

Truthful communication

Say what's real without blame or shutdown.

Polarity & desire

Masculine and feminine power that keeps the fire alive.

Healthy boundaries

Hold your centre while staying open.

Sexuality & pleasure

Own, express and receive your desires.

Shared purpose

Live your purpose, side by side.

Private retreats

We come to you. Anywhere in the world.

Some couples need more than sessions. They need time out of their lives, held completely.

Amanda and I run private retreats for one couple at a time, all over the world: a few days in a house by the water, a villa in the jungle, wherever you need to be. Ritual, truth work, bodywork and tantric practice, morning to night, with nothing to distract you from each other.

Alongside retreats, I coach each of you individually and both of you together. Your own work and your shared work, because a relationship only transforms when both people do.

Steve and Amanda in an embrace on a private couples retreat
A candlelit temple space prepared for an evening ritual Steve and Amanda at a long retreat breakfast by the lake Cushions and cacao laid out for a ritual on the grass Breakfast table set on a lakeside deck Blankets and cushions laid out by the water

From a private couples retreat. Our clients' privacy comes first: you won't see their faces here.

The Sacred Partnership program

From the brochure

Six or twelve months, following the seven elements from earth to divinity. Individual sessions for each of you, partner sessions together, and retreats. Investment is shared after we speak.

Inside the brochure

Brochure cover: Sacred Partnership Programs
Sacred Partnership Programs
Brochure page: how we work together
How we work together
Brochure page: the seven chakras and themes
The seven stages
Brochure page: the 12-month Fierce Love schedule
The 12-month Fierce Love journey
Brochure page: the tools and practices you will learn
What you'll learn together

In their words

What changes, together

I have had such a major shift ever since we started working with you. I've always wanted a man who was willing to do the work, willing to do the thing he didn't want to do. And he's the first who ever has. I feel completely different about him, and it's changed everything for me. I'm so grateful to have you by our side.

M.Couples coaching client

Steve and Amanda's ability to model playful sensuality allowed us to expand our capacity for eroticism, passion and pleasure in ways we had never explored. It redefined how we approach our relationship, igniting a new excitement and deepening our bond. We left with a glow in our eyes.

Kirk & SimoneCouple, workshop with Steve & Amanda

I've been supported by him in some of my most difficult moments in the relationship with myself and with my partner. He listens, gives his point of view when asked, and is always connected with a big vision that helps me back onto my own path.

Manuele Paradiso

Your private portal

Your own work. Your shared work.

You each get the full individual portal: every module, teaching, guided inquiry, meditation and recorded practice, and recordings of all your sessions. Then a shared space for the work you do together: a shared thread, the recordings of your couples sessions and the Sacred Partnership modules.

Portal dashboard with the seven-stage path
Private message thread with voice notes

Examples of modules

Welcome to Sacred Partnership
Welcome to Sacred Partnership
Air: love & relationships
Air: love & relationships
Inside: the Desire Dialogue
Inside: the Desire Dialogue
Brave Space Protocol
Brave Space Protocol
Inside: masculine & feminine polarity
Inside: masculine & feminine polarity
Desire Dialogue
Desire Dialogue
Water: sensuality & emotion
Water: sensuality & emotion
Inside: set the space
Inside: set the space
3-Minute Trigger Protocol
3-Minute Trigger Protocol
Inside: the heart chakra
Inside: the heart chakra
Conscious Communication
Conscious Communication
Mastering the Mind
Mastering the Mind
Inside: conscious relating
Inside: conscious relating
Relationship by Design
Relationship by Design
Inside: authentic communication
Inside: authentic communication
Earth: foundations & the seven stages
Earth: foundations & the seven stages
Inside: the dialogue format
Inside: the dialogue format
Emotional Release Tools
Emotional Release Tools
Divinity: self-mastery
Divinity: self-mastery
Inside: request the space
Inside: request the space

Examples of recorded practices

Recorded practice with Steve and Amanda: Yab Yum: tantric meditation
Yab Yum: tantric meditation
Recorded practice with Steve and Amanda: Intimacy practice: presence
Intimacy practice: presence
Recorded practice with Steve and Amanda: Self-intimacy practice
Self-intimacy practice
Recorded practice with Steve and Amanda: Yab Yum: breathing together
Yab Yum: breathing together
Recorded practice with Steve and Amanda: Intimacy practice: polarity
Intimacy practice: polarity
Recorded practice with Steve and Amanda: Yab Yum: chakra breathing
Yab Yum: chakra breathing

Examples of guided meditations

Guided meditation: Anchoring in the Present Moment
Anchoring in the Present Moment
Guided meditation: Disarming the Inner Critic
Disarming the Inner Critic
Guided meditation: Feeling Connected
Feeling Connected
Guided meditation: Managing Spiralling & Looping Thoughts
Managing Spiralling & Looping Thoughts
Guided meditation: Facing the Judge
Facing the Judge
Guided meditation: Inner Child
Inner Child
Guided meditation: Sexuality
Sexuality