Private coaching for men & couples
Lead with your life force. Hold it with integrity.
I coach men one to one, and couples together. For men who lead, men ready to, and partners who want more truth, depth and fire. Expand your capacity to hold more intensity, and channel it into presence, purpose and love.
Apply first, alone or as a couple. If it's a fit, we talk.
From me to you
I do truth. With you.
It's very simple. I'm here to drag you out of your untruth and into the truth of who you are. That's all I do.
Maybe you've done well. You've built things, and somewhere along the way you started performing a man instead of being one. Or maybe you know there's a gift in you, and you haven't yet found the courage or the path to give it to the world.
Either way, the same part of you is calling: the part that wants to step into more power, and live it with integrity.
Truth cannot be bought. It can only be done. That's the work.
Steve Shiva CorbettTransformational coach · BSc (Hons) Psychology · MBPsS
Is this you?
Two men. One calling.
Wherever you're starting from, this work meets the part of you that wants more power, more purpose and more integrity.
The man who has built it
You know your power. You want to refine it.
- The next number doesn't land any more.Another deal, another milestone. You feel it for a day, then nothing.
- You're the strong one. For everyone.Your team, your family, your friends lean on you. No one holds you.
- Pressure runs your body.Short fuse, shallow sleep, a mind that won't switch off.
- You want your power to mean something.More integrity, more fulfilment, more truth in how you live and lead.
The man ready to rise
You know there's more in you. You haven't stepped into it yet.
- You feel the gift, but you're not sharing it.You know what you're here for. The world hasn't seen it yet.
- Something in you doubts you have what it takes.So you play smaller than you are.
- You're searching for your purpose.And tired of waiting for permission to live it.
- You're ready to be initiated.Into the man you know you can become.
Or somewhere in between. Good. This is where the real work begins.
Eros · life force · nervous system
Your life force is your edge
Most powerful men are leaking it. Stress, alcohol, porn, overwork, the endless scroll. The same energy that drives your desire can drive your leadership, your wealth, your purpose and your love.
Neuro wellness
Train your nervous system out of survival mode and into calm, clear command. Sleep deeper. React less. Decide faster.
Biohacking the masculine
Breath, cold, movement, rhythm and recovery. Practical protocols for energy and focus, built into your week.
Eros as fuel
Stop leaking life force. Learn to channel sexual energy into presence, purpose and impact. This isn't about abstinence. It's about power.
Dark masculine integrity. Power that penetrates the world to liberate more truth and more love.
Capacity
Hold more. Without losing your fire.
The world is getting louder. Your business is getting bigger. Your partner needs more of you. My work expands your capacity to hold intensity, in yourself, your relationship, your business and the world.
We build a stronger masculine container for the chaos, so you embody stillness, presence and containment, with your fire and potency fully intact.
01
In yourself
Stay calm and clear when everything inside you is moving.
02
In your partner
Hold her storms, her depth and her desire without collapse or control.
03
In your business
Lead through pressure, risk and growth from a steady centre.
04
In the world
Be the still point in the chaos, and act from it with force.
The work
Leadership from the inside out
This isn't therapy. It's not a productivity hack or a spiritual bypass. We go to the roots: the survival strategies, the hidden grief, the stories you've built your identity on. Then we build a man who leads from truth.
Foundations
Lead from a steady, grounded base.
Self-regulation
Stay clear and resourced under pressure.
Drive & confidence
Act with conviction and follow through.
Relationships
Build the connections everything depends on.
Communication
Say what you mean and stand behind it.
Strategic clarity
See clearly and decide with integrity.
Self-leadership
Lead yourself, so you can lead others.
Seven stages, one for each element, from earth to divinity. Paced and tailored to where you are.
What's included
A private container. Not a session here and there.
Real change takes commitment and repetition. Every program is six or twelve months, for you alone or for you and your partner, and built around your life.
Deep sessions, alone or together
Sessions one to one, or as a couple. Online, or in person where possible. Body, emotion and mind, not just talk.
Your private portal
Your path through the seven stages, workbooks, session recordings and notes, all in one place.
Support between sessions
Messages and voice notes with me for the moments that matter, not just the scheduled ones.
Tools that hold
Rituals, practices and exercises for rapid learning and real integration into daily life.
Progress you can see
Regular reviews of where you started, where you are and what's next.
Complete confidentiality
What you bring stays between us. Always.
How it works
Three steps
Apply
A short application, about ten minutes. Be honest. It's the first step of the work.
Private call
If it's a fit, we speak. By the end of that call, you'll both know whether this is right.
Your program
You receive a proposal built around you. Then we begin.
In their words
Life before Steve. Life after.
Before working with Steve Shiva, I kept hitting the same barriers, repeating the same patterns. I've healed, developed deep self-awareness, and now move through life with clarity and purpose.
Steven TsoEntrepreneur & start-up founderHis depth, wisdom, and presence are rare. He embodies both strong masculine energy and an open-hearted connection to the feminine, creating a space where profound transformation happens.
Mark VineisCEOSix months of coaching with him changed my life. Steve's coaching isn't a quick fix, but it's a true path to transformation. I wholeheartedly recommend him to anyone seeking real, lasting change.
Dan MilbourneOnline digital investorThe men of Rites of Passage, in their own words
Filmed straight after Rites of Passage, Portugal 2025. Video: @expressence_ · About Rites of Passage
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About me
From sales director to warrior of truth
I had it all: the international career, the money, the apartment with the pool. And I couldn't feel a thing. Facing that meant destroying the reputation I'd built and becoming who I actually am.
Since then I've given my life to the work: psychology, somatic and tantric practice, men's work, and years guiding leaders, couples and men through it.
Today I'm also CEO of Temple Village, a land-based community being built in Bali. Investors, a team, deadlines and a vision bigger than me. I coach leaders from inside the same pressure, not from theory.
- BSc (Hons) Psychology
- Graduate Member of the British Psychological Society (MBPsS)
- Certified Holistic Counsellor (SIAF accredited)
- CEO of Temple Village, Bali
- Founder of Rites of Passage
Run from what's comfortable. Forget safety. Live where you fear to live. Destroy your reputation. Be notorious.Rumi