Private coaching for men & couples
Lead with your life force. Hold it with integrity.
I coach men one to one, and couples together. Men who already lead, men who are ready to, and partners who want more truth and more fire between them. Together we build your capacity to hold intensity, and to turn it into presence and love.
Apply first, alone or as a couple. If it's a fit, we talk.
From me to you
I do truth. With you.
It's very simple. I'm here to drag you out of your untruth and into the truth of who you are. That's all I do.
Maybe you've done well. You've built things, and somewhere along the way you started performing a man instead of being one. Or maybe you know there's a gift in you, and you haven't yet found the courage or the path to give it to the world.
Either way, the same part of you is calling: the part that wants to step into more power, and live it with integrity.
Truth cannot be bought. It can only be done. That's the work.
Steve Shiva CorbettTransformational coach · BSc (Hons) Psychology · MBPsS
CEO · Temple Village, Bali
I lead what I coach
Temple Village is a private residential village taking shape on 2.8 hectares of jungle in Pejeng, four kilometres from Ubud, between two rivers and beside an ancient water temple. Homes, two shalas for practice and ceremony, a community hub and a riverside spa, for people who want to live the work every day.
Within Temple Village sits Temple of Radiance, the leadership and tantra brand behind more than 350 events and 15,000 participants across 16 countries. As CEO and one of its founders, alongside Amanda Biccum and Arja Hendrikx, I’m building it with investors, a team, a development partner and real deadlines.
Building it is polarity in practice. The vision, the beauty and the longing for how we want to live come from the feminine, and I honour that creative force, just as much as the masculine structure that builds its foundations for manifestation. The masculine brings it down into matter: land, permits, budgets, foundations and walls. Lead with only one and a project either never leaves the dream or loses its soul. I lead with both, every day.
So when I coach a founder through pressure, I’m speaking from the middle of it.
Architectural visuals of Temple Village, and Amanda, Arja, Mikkail and me in Bali, 2026. Photo: @mathijs.vd.lee. Temple of Radiance is a brand within Temple Village.
Eros · life force · nervous system
Your life force is your edge
Most powerful men are leaking it. Stress, alcohol, porn, overwork, the endless scroll. The same energy that drives your desire can drive your leadership, your wealth, your purpose and your love.
Neuro wellness
Train your nervous system out of survival mode and into calm, clear command. Sleep deeper. React less. Decide faster.
Biohacking the masculine
Breath, sound, meditation, movement, rhythm and recovery. Practical protocols for energy and focus, built into your week.
Eros as fuel
Stop leaking life force. Learn to channel sexual energy into presence, purpose and impact. Nobody is asking you to give it up. You learn to direct it.
Dark masculine integrity. Power that penetrates the world to liberate more truth and more love.
Capacity
Hold more. Without losing your fire.
The world is getting louder. Your business is getting bigger. Your partner needs more of you. My work expands your capacity to hold intensity, in yourself, your relationship, your business and the world.
We build a stronger masculine container for the chaos, so you embody stillness, presence and containment, with your fire and potency fully intact.
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In yourself
Stay calm and clear when everything inside you is moving.
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In your partner
Hold her storms, her depth and her desire without collapse or control.
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In your business
Lead through pressure, risk and growth from a steady centre.
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In the world
Be the still point in the chaos, and act from it with force.
Is this you?
Two men. One calling.
Wherever you're starting from, that's where the work starts.
The man who has built it
You know your power. You want to refine it.
- The next number doesn't land any more.Another deal, another milestone. You feel it for a day, then nothing.
- You're the strong one. For everyone.Your team, your family, your friends lean on you. No one holds you.
- Pressure runs your body.Short fuse, shallow sleep, a mind that won't switch off.
- You want your power to mean something.More integrity, more fulfilment, more truth in how you live and lead.
The man ready to rise
You know there's more in you. You haven't stepped into it yet.
- You feel the gift, but you're not sharing it.You know what you're here for. The world hasn't seen it yet.
- Something in you doubts you have what it takes.So you play smaller than you are.
- You're searching for your purpose.And tired of waiting for permission to live it.
- You're ready to be initiated.Into the man you know you can become.
Or somewhere in between. Good. This is where the real work begins.
The coaching program
A private container that holds you for months
We go to the roots: the survival strategies, the hidden grief, the stories you’ve built your identity on. Then we build a man who leads from truth, alone or with your partner beside you.
In their words
Men and couples, after the work
Through my programs, retreats and events I’ve supported hundreds of men, women and couples into deeper truth and love. Here are three of them.
Before working with Steve Shiva, I kept hitting the same barriers, repeating the same patterns. I've healed, developed deep self-awareness, and now move through life with clarity and purpose.
Steven TsoEntrepreneur & start-up founderHis depth, wisdom, and presence are rare. He embodies both strong masculine energy and an open-hearted connection to the feminine, creating a space where profound transformation happens.
Mark VineisCEOI have had such a major shift ever since we started working with you. I’ve always wanted a man who was willing to do the work, willing to do the thing he didn’t want to do. And he’s the first who ever has. I feel completely different about him, and it’s changed everything for me.
M.Couples coaching clientWays to work with me
Choose your door
1:1 Coaching
Six or twelve months, one to one. The seven-stage program for men who lead, or are ready to.
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Couples
Sacred Partnership coaching for couples who want more truth, depth and fire.
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Men's Work
Rites of Passage. Initiation in brotherhood, as every culture once had.
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Sexual Mastery
Energy, presence and pleasure. Sexuality as a path to power and love.
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Events
Retreats, festivals and immersions around the world.
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About me
From sales director to warrior of truth
I had it all: the international career, the money, the apartment with the pool. And I couldn't feel a thing. Facing that meant destroying the reputation I'd built and becoming who I actually am.
Today I’m the father of two teenagers, as well as CEO and co-founder of Temple Village and the founder of Rites of Passage, and I’m still doing my own work every day.
Read my storyRun from what's comfortable. Forget safety. Live where you fear to live. Destroy your reputation. Be notorious.Rumi